There is a Chinese saying :it's wise to ignore sth and be happy.
There is another saying:Once the human being think,the God will laugh at them.
In one word , as many friend once convinced me, don't be a "too smart" girl.
A girl who is too smart, is sensitive, thinks too much, doubtful, easy to be sad.
In fact, it's right.
Thinking about my life, I have 1000 reasons not to be happy. However,I also have 1000 reason to be happy.
That's life. You can't always balance them , calculate how much you earn and how much you lost.
When start to calculate, you will fall into a trap:being unhappy.
Unfortunately, I often fall into the damn trap.
Just pretend to be happy. The fact is that the more you happy, the more happiness will follow you.
Although life is bad, though the situation is awful, my Dear , try to be happy, even preten to be.